By the time boys hit 9, they’ve seen enough toys to know what they don’t want. That’s why I’ve stopped guessing and started gifting things that are a little more offbeat, stuff that actually gets used past day one.
Some of these gifts were surprising hits in our house, while others came recommended by friends whose kids are equally opinionated.
Think creative kits, low-key tech, games that aren’t annoying to play as a parent, and gear that holds up to rough use.
If you’re shopping for a 9 year old who’s hard to impress, this list might just save you a few returns.
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These are the gifts that held up after the wrapping paper was gone, ones that got played with, learned from, and talked about days (or weeks) later.
Some are great for quiet focus, others for hands-on building or active play, but all of them were clear wins in our house.
FOLDOLOGY
This puzzle book was a total surprise hit. It looks simple at first glance, but once my son got into folding and problem-solving, he couldn’t put it down. It’s screen-free, mess-free, and somehow holds his focus for longer than I expected. Great for car rides or quiet time when you need something engaging without being loud or techy.
This winter-themed LEGO set combined all my son’s favorite things, building, storytelling, and pretending he's on an epic ski adventure. The mini figures and slopes made it easy for him to come up with scenes, and it was just the right difficulty for him to build mostly on his own. A fun seasonal set with more creative play than I thought it would offer.
This is one of those subscriptions I was hesitant to try because of the price, but honestly, it’s been worth it. My son looks forward to each monthly box and actually remembers what he learns. The experiments feel like real science, not just crafts, and the VR element makes it even more exciting. Perfect for curious kids who like hands-on activities.
This book checks all the boxes: LEGO + movement + engineering. My son loved figuring out how the gears work, especially when his creations actually moved like they were supposed to. It’s also one of the few STEM kits that didn’t require a lot of extra help from me. If your kid likes LEGO but needs a new challenge, this one’s perfect.
We brought this one out on a rainy weekend, and it turned into a full afternoon of crystal growing, volcano building, and messy-but-worth-it fun. The instructions were easy to follow, and I liked that it gave just enough background info without feeling like a workbook. Ideal for kids who like science but need it to feel like play.
We used this when I needed something educational and hands-off. It covers subjects like spelling and math but feels more like a game, which helped a lot when motivation was low. The physical pieces make it more interactive than just an app, and my son didn’t even realize he was learning. Great for 9-year-olds who like screens but need structure.
This one was as fun as it sounds. My son got to mix, measure, and experiment, and we all got to enjoy the results. It’s a great way to sneak in a little food science without needing a full kitchen setup. Plus, making his own ice cream gave him a huge sense of accomplishment (and an excuse to invite friends over to taste-test).
This keyboard was my son’s intro to music, and honestly, it stuck way longer than I thought it would. He started off just playing around with the sounds but eventually figured out a few simple songs. The built-in lessons were easy to follow, and it’s small enough to store without taking over the room. A great starter if you’re not ready to invest in full lessons just yet.
Sometimes simple wins. This one gets used constantly, for backyard games, park meetups, and even indoor footwork practice when the weather’s bad. The match-weight feel gives it a more “official” vibe, which made it more exciting for my son to use in practice. If you’re buying for a kid who’s into sports, this is a safe, useful choice that actually gets used.
I wasn’t sure my son would care about tracking steps, but this turned out to be a fun way to encourage movement. He likes checking his daily goals, and it became a bit of a challenge to beat his previous records. The parental controls are solid, and it holds a charge for days. Great for kids who like a little independence and tech.
We got this during a screen-free challenge and it ended up staying in our daily routine. My son liked the digital tracker, anything with a number to beat is a win, and it was easy to adjust the length. It’s also one of the few gifts that combines fitness, tech, and fun without being a full-on gadget.
This dart board became our go-to indoor game on rainy afternoons. It’s surprisingly sturdy, and the magnetic darts are strong enough to stick but safe enough that I’m not worried about holes in the wall. My son likes the competitive side, and it’s fun for quick family tournaments. No setup required, just hang it and start playing.
Nerf is always a hit in our house, and this one’s been the favorite for a while. The rotating barrel keeps the action going, and it’s sturdy enough to survive both solo missions and sibling battles. We’ve had a few that jam easily, this one doesn’t. Just make sure you grab extra darts (you’ll need them).
This ball genuinely made my son want to stay outside longer, even when it’s getting dark. The lights are bright, easy to trigger, and actually hold up to real play. It’s great for summer nights or just making evening games more exciting. Bonus: it fits standard hoops, so there’s no setup stress.
This was my son’s first real skateboard, and the size was perfect for a beginner. The blue galaxy design was a hit, and it rolled smoothly right out of the box. He practiced on the driveway for weeks, and now it’s his go-to for riding around the neighborhood. If your 9-year-old wants to try skating without a full-size board, this is a solid starting point.
This version of Clue made game night way more exciting for my Harry Potter-obsessed kid. It’s familiar enough to learn quickly, but with magical twists that kept it interesting. He loved exploring Hogwarts and solving the mystery, and I liked that it made him think through strategy and clues. Great pick for kids who know the books or movies.
I wasn’t sure how this one would go, he loves Fortnite, but Monopoly isn’t usually his thing. Turns out, the gameplay is fast-paced and different enough to hold his attention. He liked collecting health points instead of cash, and we’ve actually played it multiple times without arguments (rare win). A fun bridge between video games and board games.
This game is just the right amount of weird. It’s silly, fast, and completely unpredictable, which is probably why it’s my son’s favorite card game. It’s also compact and easy to pack, so we’ve brought it on trips and played it in waiting rooms. Great for short attention spans and big laughs.
This one is as chaotic as it sounds, in the best way. It mixes a card game with a full-on dodgeball match using giant inflatable burritos. We took it to the park and ended up drawing a crowd. Definitely one of those gifts that’s more about experience than pieces in a box.
This is one of the few trivia-style games my son actually enjoys because it’s fast and themed around his favorite superheroes. He liked playing both with friends and one-on-one with me, and it really helped build deductive reasoning (without him realizing it). It’s also small enough to throw in a bag for travel or waiting rooms.
This classic game turned out to be a surprise hit. It’s all about strategy and teamwork, and my son liked being the sneaky character just as much as he enjoyed trying to catch them. It’s a bit more involved than some of our other games, but once he learned it, he kept coming back for more. A smart pick for kids who love logic and mystery.
This game is loud, fast, and full of wild monster battles, which is probably why it’s so popular in our house. My son loves picking his monster and rolling for power-ups, and the gameplay strikes a great balance between luck and strategy. It’s competitive without dragging on, which makes it perfect for family game night.
This one is just gross enough to be hilarious without being totally over the top. It’s a silly strategy game that’s heavy on puns and bathroom humor—basically, everything a 9-year-old boy finds funny. Despite the theme, it actually makes him think a few moves ahead, which is a win in my book.
We got this as a more affordable way for my son to play Switch games without sharing the main console, and it’s been a great decision. It’s portable, easy to set up, and perfect for road trips. He uses it for everything from Mario to puzzle games, and it’s held up really well.
This game has all the fun of classic Mario but with enough new twists to feel fresh. My son was hooked from the first level, and I liked that it encourages problem-solving and exploration without needing online access. A solid choice if you already have a Switch and want something family-friendly.
Wireless Controller for Nintendo Switch – Mario Pop
We grabbed this as a backup controller, but my son ended up claiming it as his favorite. The bright Mario design stands out, and it’s comfortable for smaller hands. It connects easily and works just like the official controllers—but without the steep price tag.
This smart speaker is surprisingly kid-friendly. My son mostly uses it for music and trivia, but I love that it has parental controls built in. The owl design makes it feel like it’s made just for him, and the built-in bedtime features (like calming sounds) are a nice bonus.
This headset gets a ton of use. Whether he's chatting with friends during online games or watching videos, the sound quality is great and the mic is clear. The LED lights are a fun touch, and it’s actually comfortable for longer sessions. It’s also survived a few accidental drops, always a plus.
This oversized mouse pad added a fun gamer vibe to my son’s desk setup without taking up much space. It gives him plenty of room for both his mouse and keyboard, and the themed design makes his whole area feel more personalized. Bonus: it keeps things from sliding around during intense Minecraft sessions.
This was a huge hit the second he opened it. Even though he’s not playing Fortnite yet, he knows all the references thanks to YouTube. It’s soft, washes well, and has quickly become his favorite weekend shirt. A fun, low-cost gift that still feels cool.
This fidget toy is oddly mesmerizing. My son was completely hooked the first time he twisted it into different shapes. It’s more creative than a basic cube and has just enough challenge to keep him engaged. Great for kids who like puzzles but don’t want something overly structured.
My son loves anything with his name on it—and if it also has a creeper on the front? Instant win. This hoodie is soft, warm, and has held up well to repeated wear (and not-so-gentle treatment). It’s great for birthdays because it feels like something made just for them.
Minecraft Creeper Personalized Custom Name Keychain
Small but meaningful, this keychain became a fun little “add-on” gift that he clipped to his backpack immediately. It’s not expensive, but kids love anything custom. A great stocking stuffer or birthday bag filler for Minecraft fans.
This piggy bank is basically a toy and a life lesson in one. My son loves entering his code to open it, and it’s helped him get excited about saving birthday money. The “safe” vibe makes it feel high-tech, but it’s super simple to use. A nice mix of fun and function.
This 3D pen brought out a whole new side of my son’s creativity. At first, he just followed the templates, but now he’s trying his own designs. It takes a little patience and practice, but the results are really cool—and it’s a nice alternative to screen time. We use it on weekends when he wants a project that feels a little more advanced.
This little cube is packed with mini memory and logic games, and somehow, it never gets boring. My son brings it in the car, uses it while waiting at restaurants, and even plays with it before bed. It charges quickly, and the different game modes keep things interesting without being overstimulating.
This disc made backyard play so much more fun, especially in the evening. The LED lights are bright and easy to activate, and it’s light enough for kids to throw easily. We’ve used it at the park, at the beach, and even at night during neighborhood get-togethers. It’s one of those gifts that looks simple but really stands out in use.
This was a fun surprise, part Nerf-style target game, part reflex challenge. My son uses it solo and sometimes makes it into a contest with friends. It’s great for improving hand-eye coordination, and I love that it gives him a focused way to burn off energy indoors without breaking anything.
This hoodie was more about self-expression than anything else. Even though my son isn’t on TikTok, he knows all the trends and loved having something that “looked older.” It’s soft, colorful, and has been in heavy rotation ever since. A fun way for kids to feel connected to pop culture—even if you’re keeping screen time in check.
This book lives on our coffee table now. My son flips through it constantly, asking random trivia questions and spouting facts about sharks or space or history. It’s one of those books that doesn’t feel like reading, but still gets him engaged and curious. Ideal for kids who like learning in quick bursts.
100 Best Books for 9 Year Old Boys That Will Keep Them Reading
If you’re looking for something screen-free that still captures their imagination, this list is full of exciting books that match the curiosity and energy of 9-year-old boys. From graphic novels to laugh-out-loud adventures, these are the titles my son couldn’t put down.
Board games are always a hit in our house, and this list features the ones that consistently get pulled off the shelf. These picks combine strategy, humor, and creativity—perfect for family nights or independent play.
Unique gifts for 9 year olds include creative gadgets, interactive toys, educational kits, and items that encourage imaginative play. Look for gifts that challenge them to think critically, explore new ideas, or develop new skills—such as hands-on science kits, 3D pens, or customizable toys that let them express their creativity.
What are the best tech gifts for 9 year old boys?
Tech gifts for 9 year olds can range from gaming consoles, such as the Nintendo Switch Lite, to interactive gadgets like smart speakers or activity trackers. Gadgets that combine learning with fun—like interactive learning kits, gaming headsets, or 3D pens—are perfect for sparking curiosity about technology.
Nice guide! I like the look of that coding robot, and the dart board! Although I’d say that at 9, I was already using a ´proper´dart board. This will leave less holes in the wall though, lol!
I also like the look of the chemistry set, although I’m not sure if our boy is ready for that level of learning yet. Would like to add too that we’ve got a big keyboard and that’s something I’m very happy we bought, some years ago. Music is important to us! xx
A proper dart board!! Well to be honest I was thinking that, but I like my walls too much!! Thats great to know about the keyboard too, I am sure we are all going to love it 🙂 x
Some great ideas here. I know a couple of children in this bracket. The girl of the two wants a friendship bracelet maker but these may help choosing a boy present. Thank you!
Never considered that a dartboard can help brush up maths skills – great idea! My son’s only three, so too young right now, but I might try to get one for myself in the house under the guise of helping my own terrible maths skills!
My oldest son is 5 years old so I think most of these are still a little too old for him. However, he has mentioned Fortnite and Hello Neighbor a few times to me (thanks to YouTube), but I think he is still a bit too young for those. Am I wrong? Awesome post.
Fortnite is so addictive, and is rated a 12. I gave in about 6 months ago with my 8 year old (as all of his friends were playing it) BUT it is all he talks about. DON’T DO IT!! Hello Neighbour I think is only rated a 7, so that might be a bit better. 🙂 xx
Nice guide! I like the look of that coding robot, and the dart board! Although I’d say that at 9, I was already using a ´proper´dart board. This will leave less holes in the wall though, lol!
I also like the look of the chemistry set, although I’m not sure if our boy is ready for that level of learning yet. Would like to add too that we’ve got a big keyboard and that’s something I’m very happy we bought, some years ago. Music is important to us! xx
A proper dart board!! Well to be honest I was thinking that, but I like my walls too much!! Thats great to know about the keyboard too, I am sure we are all going to love it 🙂 x
I wouldn’t mind getting some of these for myself. Great list! Very thorough.
Some great ideas here. I know a couple of children in this bracket. The girl of the two wants a friendship bracelet maker but these may help choosing a boy present. Thank you!
Never considered that a dartboard can help brush up maths skills – great idea! My son’s only three, so too young right now, but I might try to get one for myself in the house under the guise of helping my own terrible maths skills!
Thanks for this! My nephew is 9 and I always wind up giving him Legos.
Love the look of Harry Potter cluedo. I reckon our 9yo daughter would love the science one and the botley one too.
Some great ideas! I think I might want Harry Potter Cluedo!
Some great ideas. I think I might want Harry Potter Cluedo!
My oldest son is 5 years old so I think most of these are still a little too old for him. However, he has mentioned Fortnite and Hello Neighbor a few times to me (thanks to YouTube), but I think he is still a bit too young for those. Am I wrong? Awesome post.
Fortnite is so addictive, and is rated a 12. I gave in about 6 months ago with my 8 year old (as all of his friends were playing it) BUT it is all he talks about. DON’T DO IT!! Hello Neighbour I think is only rated a 7, so that might be a bit better. 🙂 xx
Thank you! I appreciate the advice! 🙂